Style IT on Chinese New Year!

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!

1st day 
Forever 21 : dress
Vincci: wedges
Lovisa: Choker

Although its kinda a tradition to wear "cheongsam" ( for those who wonders what those button up and tight fitting chinese dress are called) on the very first day of Chinese New Year, I've decided to break that and wear something else. I guess I'm not  fully traditional myself.

Bitxh takes the red carpet  2nd day
Instagram bearcloset: Skater skirt and top

 Although I didn't wear Cheongsam, I've tried to wear  bright colored outfits and I pretty much wore RED significantly on the first two days. Its a belief  of the Chinese culture that black should not be worn on celebrations as it symbolizes death. I pretty much avoided wearing black but the accessories were an exceptional.

3rd day 
dress: cotton on
heels: nichii

I chose a navy blue dress instead on the third day as I have worn all of my red outfits and I'm running out of red outfits. My analogy would be as long as its not black then it would be perfectly fine.
It was not implemented in the Chinese Culture that we would have to wear RED for the entire week of our celebration.

Pretty much that's about it , Happy Chinese New Year everyone and have a great time collecting all of the red packets. Cuz its money on all of our minds haha just kidding, Chinese isn't just about money but an opportunity to gather all of our family members together and reunite.

Lifetime Loss.

Could Friendship Last FoReVer?

I've had good and bad experiences with my best friends  and it  always hurts the most when this friendship falls apart. I've always had doubts of the mindset of everlasting friendship, I mean please be realistic. Do you think that your best friends wouldn't ever leave?


Generally would they  actually text or call you to ask you out; you are the very least concern to them. Friends who only requires your presence whenever they are in need isn't a true friend. They're taking advantage of you by demanding you to help them out. For example if your friend was bitching about you and have not called you for awhile ; but suddenly from out of  nowhere they gave you a call and ask for a ride home. Honey slap yourself awake. That doesn't make any sense why would they even call you if they do not want to  involve you in their lives.

All I would like to say is that true friends would not take your kindness for granted and they wouldn't want to hurt you. Their maturity level would be tolerable and they wouldn't be reckless of their friendship with you. An understanding friend shows concern for their friends.

Its okay if you have lost a best friend; time would heal the wounds and experiences would build up your maturity level. What you have experienced should be a lesson of growing up . Don't fret sooner or later you would have someone that would cherish you .