Lingering Memories of Someone

 

 It's Difficult to Forget Someone.

You don't even realize how much I miss you although I've denied it in an uncountable times. We both agree to not be in a relationship but as I proceed further, without realizing I began to enjoy our company . The way you smile makes me laugh and the moments we had were good but I was left in a state of confusion. You gave me hopes when I have decided to forget you. What have you done to me?

You are  unreachable .

 

Now our distance is miles apart ,someplace where its impossible for me to meet you.

  I still move on with my life even without your presence , although it hurts to even mention your name. How delirious I get every time I think of you, how it upsets me when we are far apart, how you pissed me off by leaving me in a state of confusion. It was unbelievable and unfathomable for me.

An invoice of my heart do hope that we could have a chance to be together when we meet again but I do not plan to get my hopes high.

Let the flow goes.

Someday I won't be standing alone on this path and there would be a day where someone would be willing to walk with me.

Look at The ♥ Not the COLoR

My analogy is just simple. Please don't be quick to judge someone based on their skin color. You might be surprised that they would turn out to be your close friend.

Anyone could be a friend of yours even if they were raised or born in a different culture and language . Even if they may  have different belief or perspective, you could still take the initiative to understand them and communicate with them

Get along with them .  They might be your pillar support

How to be A Survivor in College?

College SimPle Rules.

1. Never Procrastinate
This is som I would always remind myself especially when it comes to assignments.Its gonna be a hectic and an untidy schedule or result . 

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cause you have not prepare any back up plans. I could say that the result would not be satisfying when you could actually do better.



2. Avoid Dramas
Try to get along with your college mates as you may need to work together in the future. First impression would always be important as you do not want be labeled as a not well to do college mate or incapable to work together. Even if do not wish to work with that particular person, don't show hatred towards them as you need the unity of the team.


3.Be honest
I'm not trying to say that you should be brutally honest with your college mate, you need to be considerate as well. It  is not nice to back stab someone instead you should honestly tell them so that they are aware of it.  If they don't appreciate your honesty than don't push it , just drop it and forget about it.



4. Take a break
Whenever you have a pile of assignments to hand in and you're overwhelmed by it, take a short break and relax. Release yourself and close your eyes for about 3 mins. If you're gonna just over stressed yourself yourself the result would be nothing ; your mind is only filled with getting the task instead of doing your best on that task and you tend to lose focus.


5. Coffee or Chocolate Best Friend?
Yes they would be your best friend whenever you need to stay up all night just to work  on your assignments. Preferably the drinks should be hot instead of cold. The hot steam just soothes and calms your muscles . Its caffeine and it would keep you awake.If you're immune to it, my advise for you would be sleep early work it out the next morning.

6.Well plan
Get a planner and set your schedules neatly and plan it efficiently. Planner is necessary plus it helps you to remember easily.

7. Don't Underestimate 
Never underestimate anyone's capability as well as yours. No matter how obvious someone's weakness could be still they could create a miraculous job.

  

I'm not too sure if this would help but so far this is what I' ve realize after attending college. Assigments just never ends and working with people who don't have the same motivation as you is just difficult.

Will to Say No.

e ALRIGHT to  Say     NO.

The fact that certain just finds it difficult to say no or reject people and in turn they had to agree to everything do even though their conscience tells them not to. You may find it weird but hey I find it pretty difficult as well. Offering kindness and overdoing it is  different , don't get too confuse with that. There a limitation of kindness

Kindness VS Overdoing

Kindness= Offering advise or guidance in assignments or explaining the unanswered question.

Overdoing= Doing someone's else entire assignment and the other person takes the credit.

That's overdoing and offering kindness. If someone else asks you to do their entire homework please kindly refuse them. Its not your accountability to do that, you are not their slave or mother. 

Kindness= Offering help with carrying a pile of books who's having the difficulties to them as its heavy. Especially the disabled.

Overdoing= Carrying a popular's handbag and her books.

That is not offering kindness , that person is taking advantage of you . Please take that courage and keep that integrity of yours. You do not need to belittle and underestimate yourself. If someone needs that particular help then do offer help.

How to Spend Money Wisely.?

 

 

IT'S ALL ABOUT  $AVINGS

Recently I'm pretty short of money and the idea of shopping is totally out. Its a total disaster to not shop. Gosh its summer and they're plenty of pretty floral clothes and shades. OMG that its a total turn onz. Well yeah back to shortage of money, you might realize that you could actually save more if you cut short the parties that you attend, the starbucks coffee that you would buy every morning, or additional new clothes that couldn't even fit your wardrobe. STOP THAT. 

1.Avoid buying unnecessary things.
If you do not have the need to buy that particular thing don't buy unless you will use them. If you don't have a valid reason don't waste that additional money even if its affordable. If you have something similar don't buy just use your old ones.

2. Spend Less on Your Wardrobe.
Buy less clothes. Fashion does not require any daily shopping. You do not have to wear new clothes just to look presentable and trendy. Just visualize and play around with your outfits. 


3. Diary planner.
 Daily records on how much you spent would be a good start and it gives you a wide exposure on setting a budget.

 4. Firm
If you set an expected budget , you should listen to it and not  be wavered by last decisions. Don't drown yourself into temptation.

 

  5.Food
Avoid eating expensive food. Any food could satisfy your appetite as long it edible, there isn't any need of eating lascivious food. Learn to be frugal , once awhile would be fine not  all the time.


 

  

6 Types of Guys In a Club

"GUYS" that You'll Meet at a Club

Okay this blog is mainly for entertainment purpose and well don't hate me we're in the 21st century, everyone has that freedom of speech. You could choose not to read if this offends you. Well I'm not stereotyping all of the guys and I'm just telling you guys what I know.




1. The Horny Dudes
These guys planned to shag girls that they have eyes on and they would be the first to offer the girls a ride home. They'll stick very close to you in the club for the entire night and you can't even get rid of them ; they'll be physical by touching every inch of your body especially your boobs or your vagina . They'll even fingers you when you're at the dance floor.


2.The Geeks
These guys would be the socially awkward people who tries so hard to approach or dance with the girls but they only scares them instead. They do not know how to be physical or even impress the girls. When they starts dancing it looks embarrassing and hideous.


3. Threesome Plan
These guys are the ones who make a pact of  hitting on the bunch of girls who are friends and they'll always dance together not planning to move an inch away from their friends. They'll do everything together not leaving each other or they even planned to shag the same girl.



4.Good GUY
These guys would be absolutely rare to find in a club girls if you ever meet them you're lucky. They are the ones who are always  sober or they would even take good care of their girl friends. They wouldn't have any intentions of having sex with you. You and him would only be talking and exchanging numbers. No physical contact  just pure conversation.


5. Desperate and Obsessive
These guys would be asking your numbers and when they do they'll text you and ask you out right away. In the club they'll make out with you for thousands of times and they'll be marking you as their possession
not allowing you to dance with other guys or they'll just tell them that you're his girlfriend. None of the guys are allowed to touch you because you are  his.



6.The Antisocial
 These guys would only drink with their group of friends and they would not leave their seat or talk to any other girls. They'll just watch and not dance . That's it . They would not make a move for the entire night and they seem to look uninterested . Hypothetically its either their first visit to a club or either they're not single

5 Ways to Gain Your Parent's TRUST !

 

The First Step of Everything

 

1. Avoid telling too many lies .
First thing you should never do is telling too many lies. Please if you're not a good liar don't even think of lying to your parents.Lies can't be kept hidden forever. Just be honest.



2. Punctuality of Curfews
Be on time. I know parties begins at  nite but trust me if you abide to  their rules ; anytime in the future you're able to attend late night parties.

3. Responsibility
Be responsible in whatever you're doing; it  represents your maturity level. The importance of responsibility is way beyond your expectations. If you're able to take good care of yourself, you've gained your parent's trust. Don't get yourself into deep trouble.

4. Balancing
The equilibrium of your education and your social activities. That will be your accountability to juggle with your schedules. If you're  able to do that, I would be able to trust you as well as your parents.

5 . Obedience
 Parents tend to trust you in a way but only if you're obedient. Like if they tell you to be home early and you actually listens, it reassures them that you do listen to them or even make an effort to actually listen to them. They actually appreciate that.