e ALRIGHT to Say NO.
The fact that certain just finds it difficult to say no or reject people and in turn they had to agree to everything do even though their conscience tells them not to. You may find it weird but hey I find it pretty difficult as well. Offering kindness and overdoing it is different , don't get too confuse with that. There a limitation of kindness
Kindness VS Overdoing
Kindness= Offering advise or guidance in assignments or explaining the unanswered question.
Overdoing= Doing someone's else entire assignment and the other person takes the credit.
That's overdoing and offering kindness. If someone else asks you to do their entire homework please kindly refuse them. Its not your accountability to do that, you are not their slave or mother.
Kindness= Offering help with carrying a pile of books who's having the difficulties to them as its heavy. Especially the disabled.
Overdoing= Carrying a popular's handbag and her books.
That is not offering kindness , that person is taking advantage of you . Please take that courage and keep that integrity of yours. You do not need to belittle and underestimate yourself. If someone needs that particular help then do offer help.
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